Can my ex sue me over things he has paid for over the course of relationship?

Asked in McKinney, TX on March 22, 2026 Last answered on June 11, 2026

We met four years ago, and quickly became a couple. Over time, it became abusive and messy and toxic, which is the reason why I ended our relationship this last month. Unfortunately, we have one month left on our shared apartment lease and are living that out as well we can. As far as I am aware, I am not responsible for a lot for his debts regarding his credit cards, his car, or the loss of savings during the relationship. His abuses have escalated to threatening me with court whenever I disagree. I am responsible for a lot of what he's asking for. While I am more than willing to pay shared household bills, I have missed over the last four months due to job issues and move-out costs, he seems to think I owe him more, and he is actively pressuring and scaring me into paying more than I am responsible for. Can he take me to court?

1 answer

Eric LaFleur
Answered by:

Eric LaFleur

Allen, TX
LaFleur Law Firm, P.C. 469-802-8436
Virtual Appointments
Free Consultation
Answer

It depends on what, exactly, he paid and whether there was any kind of express or implied agreement that he was making the payments as a loan, or that they were to be reimbursed.  No way to say definitively without knowing more details but, in general, I think most judges would be skeptical of requests for reimbursement of expenses paid for a live-in boyfriend/girlfriend. 

June 11, 2026

Don't see what you are looking for? Ask a Super Lawyers Selectee - it's free!

Submit a question and get answers for free from a Super Lawyers Selectee.

Ask a question
Disclaimer

The information contained in this web site is intended to convey general information. It should not be construed as legal advice or opinion. It is not an offer to represent you, nor is it intended to create an attorney-client relationship.

Page Generated: 0.10524201393127 sec